Reality
Last month, we applied the primary school admission. The following conversation occurred outside the interviewing room.
A lady said, "It's reported that all kinds of interview have been prohibited, isn't it?"
I seconded, "Every child will be enrolled, anyway."
"Teachers should check if anything wrong with each kid," said a father.
I insisted, "It's regulated, everyone must get enrolled."
"At least, psycho shouldn't be accepted..." He stuck to his point as well.
This might be the microcosm of the reality. I'm not intending to discuss the opinion of that father. The reality of the society is that the sympathy is easy, and everyone can be the "keyboard-man". But as long as he himself is involved, no mercy will be shown at all. We can't blame the ordinary people, since it's not their fault. After all, all resources have to be fought for, wildly. The ones saying morality all the time either have ulterior motive or are too young too simple.
We, adults, indeed owe our children a lot, especially those kids with special needs. As the parents of these kids, we cannot alway ask every individual person to understand us - we must push the government authority to move forward and create an environment fair to everyone. Special help is not available, but equality is somehow the bottomline.
"Keep going!" - this is my motto, and I commit myself to it.